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Go Figure…

June 12, 2009 · 2 Comments

by Danielle

A while back I told some friends how much Dan and I enjoy Mexican food, and complained that it’s hard to find in Paris. During the course of the conversation I learned that my French friend had never heard of a piñata.  We laughed about the impossibility of finding such an item in Paris, and joked that in the U.S. there are probably entire stores devoted to piñatas. 

Fast forward to a few months later. American friends are hosting a Mexican-themed party which includes… a piñata! I asked where they got it (suspecting they made it) and go figure, just a few blocks away from me is www.lapinata.fr  (check out the gallery). Paris never fails to surprise me.

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Splash

June 10, 2009 · 2 Comments

by Danielle

I know you will appreciate that I’ll spare you the horrors of bathing suit shopping in Paris. Suffice it to say that there are a plethora of expensive string bikinis available, and not much else. Why I left my favorite Target brand tankini in storage, I will never know…

There are not one but two new indoor swimming pools within a short walk of our apartment, and I’ve been eager to take Joseph. My brother and I grew up swimming on a highly ranked team (Go Tuckahoe Tigers!) and spent our childhood summers at the pool, so I’ve been eager to expose Joseph to the intoxicating scent of chlorine mixed with SPF 1000.

It was on impulse that I decided one day to take him. We’d shopped for suits the week before but I’d hoped to check out the pool once on my own before going together. I was certain I’d misunderstood the opening hours, or that there were some rules I was not aware of that would preclude us from swimming. I wanted it to be perfect, without any disappointments.

You pay at the front desk (1.80 euros), and head downstairs (after admiring the skaters on the ice rink) to the locker room. I was not prepared for a coed experience! Not that there was any nudity, but I am so used to the sexes being seperate, that each time I saw a man I was startled, thinking I had made a wrong turn somewhere and was in the wrong place. It didn’t help that signage was poor and the flow of the space, especially the changing cabins, bizarre.

Joseph was a great sport as I stumbled through the rooms, and he seemed especially tickled to have to walk through a teeny wading pool (not sure why, to clean feet?) before climbing stairs up to the pools.  Oh by the way, two things you should know about French pools; swimming caps are required (cruel), and so are speedo-style suits for men (cruel? you decide).

There were four pools in addition to a huge lap pool. We spent most of our time in the kiddie pool which had about a foot of water and a few playful features (fountains, some levers that controled waterflow into a sculpture) that were not operational at the time. Joseph loved it, we spent easily an hour in the kiddie pool and then moved on to the next size up, where he practiced jumping in from various locations. I was thrilled that he wasn’t afraid of the water and even when his head went completely underwater (twice) he did not get upset at all. Could he be a Tuckahoe Tiger in the making? Only time will tell.

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Tell it to the Hand

June 8, 2009 · 1 Comment

by Danielle

Last weekend I took a weekend trip to Antwerp, Belgium to meet up with my dear friend Leslie and her boyfriend Menno, who were there for a concert. Leslie and I have been friends since college days, and this was pre-internet, where we would hand write each other five page (front and back! college ruled!) letters, because we were too broke to make long distance phone calls. She has been living in Holland for many years, most recently working as a translator.  

After two hours on the Thalys train, we met in Centraal Station, dropped off our bags (at a beautiful guesthouse on the water) we were off exploring. First stop: frites! I chose to have them the true Belgian style, with mayonaise, which I normally detest. You know what? It wasn’t bad. Kind of gross to look at, yes, but yummy.

For the entire visit we were on foot and burned major calories. The city is manageable in scale, not too crowded (around 500,000) and it’s so CLEAN. It puts Paris to shame. It has a great energy, a combination of relaxed urban vibe (but not many tall buildings) with history and charm (old churches, beautiful architecture, many secret little passageways and nooks) with a strong arts influence. 

There are excellent museums, we saw the Goya/Redon/Ensor exhibit at the Fine Arts museum which I found disturbing (Leslie loved it :)   But we missed what appeared to be a more lighthearted show of paper clothing at the Fashion Museum. The city is known for fashion, due to the top rated design school and famous Belgian designers like Ann Demeulemeester.

Public art is everywhere, even in very unexpected places, like poetry written into street crossings, or sculptures in ‘transitional’ spaces (like an abandoned lot). Add to this many nice, casual restaurants, friendly multilingual locals, great shopping and amazing friends, you can pretty much conclude that this was a heavenly getaway.

Fun side note: Antwerp got its name from a legend about a mythical giant that guarded the river, demanding toll from those who wished to pass. If they refused he would cut off one of their hands and throw it into the Scheldt. Eventually he was killed, and the name “Antwerpen” comes from the Dutch “hand werpen.”

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Un-Vélib-able

June 3, 2009 · Leave a Comment

by Danielle

I have been wanting to try out Vélib (a bike rental system) ever since we arrived, and last week I had my chance.  Guess what, it’s fantastic! I hope more cities continue to replicate the idea.

Paris’ system is supposedly the largest in the world with 20,000 bikes and nearly 1500 stations. Bike stands are everywhere, each with spaces for about 15 bikes. As an example, there are about 4 stations within three blocks of our apartment. At a station you choose a rental term (1 day= 1 euro, 7 days=5 euros, a year= 29 euros), swipe a credit card, select a bike and you’re off!  The first 30 minutes are free, and if you go over the additional price is around 1-4 euros depending. This is to encourage high turnover of bikes for maximum availability.

There are some “gotcha’s.” For example there is always a chance that a station might not have any bikes, or only broken ones. Or, when you want to return your bike, there might not be any space to leave it. In both cases you just go a few blocks to another station and hope for better luck.

The next hurdle is larger, depending on how easily intimidated you are. The actual biking! Bike lanes are common on wide busy streets, but when there are no lanes you must fend for yourself. Even on small one-way streets, cars, motorcyclists and even other bikers are aggressive. And then there are a pedestrians, constantly walking into the street without looking. I have been guilty of this myself and now I am much more respectful of the bike lanes in particular.

For my first outing on Vélib I ventured just west of the Louvre to the Jardin de Tuileries, Gallerie Jeu de Palme and the Musee de l’Orangerie.  Gallerie Jeu de Palme is a contemporary art museum in a gorgeous building (but sleek and modern on the inside) that was formerly tennis courts during the era of Napolean III. The name (translating to “game of hands”) is derived from the original French name for tennis, before it was played with racquets. Here I saw an exhibit of video art which was interesting but not too noteworthy.

Next up was the recently renovated Musee de l’Orangerie, where eight of Claude Monet’s famous water lily paintings are on display. I was so happy to finally see them, so now I’m eager to compare them to the real water lilies at Giverny. I’m glad I poked around the museum a little bit because there was a large exhibit space for paintings on the lower level.

My reward for this glorious day out? A 20 minute ride home on Vélib, mostly uphill! No need to hit the gym that day, I can assure you.

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Weekend Warriors

May 24, 2009 · 2 Comments

by Danielle

Dan just finished his last class until mid-June and although he has a few papers to write, we’re eager to have him more available for family time. This weekend was the first in recent memory where we did not have committments, school-related or otherwise.

Saturday started off bright and sunny, but by the time Rachel had a whopper nap it was gray, cold and rainy. Our friend Jamie told us about a kid-friendly restaurant (with high chairs-very rare here) in Republique, so we hopped a bus and in less than ten minutes we were in Belgian-themed Leon de Bruxelles.  What is Belgian food, you might ask? Mainly frites (french fries), mussels (prepared about ten different ways) and waffles (with a zillion combos of ice cream toppings). Oh, and beer. The place was full of families and it was nice to enjoy a meal and not be paranoid about making a lot of noise or disturbing other people.

Sunday we metroed to the edge of town to the Bois de Vincennes, a gorgeous park with four lakes, a zoo, a farm, floral gardens, playgrounds, and an enormous 12th century chateau. It was a cloudless sky and about 80 degrees, we were sunscreened and sweating- unbelieveable! Even in August the weather never got this hot. The park is so large (almost three times the size of Central Park in NYC) that we will have to go back repeatedly, as we were only able to see part of the lake and a playground, where we had a picnic. 

There are many places like this that we are eager to see, on the edge of town or within an hour of the city by train. For now playing tourist is a challenge, a balancing act between Rachel’s frequent naps, sketchy weather forecasts, Joseph’s mood, and parental energy levels. I hope to soon visit the town of Giverny, where Claude Monet lived and painted his water lilies series. But this week I’ll be satisfied with just seeing the paintings at the Orangerie at the edge of Jardin des Tuileries.

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Fashionably Unfashionable

May 22, 2009 · 1 Comment

by Danielle

A few friends have asked if I find the French people to be very chic and fashionable. This is a tough call to make. A reminder: our neighborhood consists of many working class Chinese, Arabs and Africans, so you’re not going to see anyone looking like they walked out of Vogue magazine. You’ll see plenty of chadors and headscarves and dashikis but not Guccis and Puccis.

But aside from the international crowd…. Even in Belleville many people (well, younger women at least) seem to have a little something special going on with their style. It’s not a classic style per se, but simply a willingness to show total disregard for what flatters.  This sounds bad but I don’t mean it that way. It’s pretty spunky. To not care if you look ten pounds heavier than you are takes a lot of confidence. I should point out that while there are much fewer obese people here, there are plenty with spare tires and a little junk in the trunk.

Clothes-wise I see a lot of creative layering that I don’t see in the US. Long tops over short skirts, handkerchief hems, loose cut cotton tunic-style tops, leggings. Scarves, either silk or pashmina knockoffs, are on everyone even the men. Shoes are very often black Converse Chuck Taylor All Stars (never the hightop version), or well worn black boots.

It looks like all the French girls shop at H&M (or NafNaf), but I am in on their secret. Just around the corner is rue du Faubourg de Temple, three blocks of clothes and shoes that look like they fell off a truck. Everything is 5-25 euros and looks like an H&M knockoff. This means no natural materials in sight and questionable quality. But it’s packed with teens and twenty-somethings on the weekends who look more chic than I ever was at that age. 

I read that French women don’t own a lot of clothes, they buy quality not quantity, and only what is an absolutely perfect complement to their exisiting wardrobes. I can neither confirm nor deny this claim, but I suspect that if it’s true it’s only because Parisian closets are TINY. No walk-ins here. If you were fortunate enough to have a walk-in closet, it would be converted into a bedroom before you could say “mon dieu!”

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Blue Sky

May 22, 2009 · Leave a Comment

by Danielle

Today is the first day I can recall when the sky was bright clear blue. It’s glorious. I’ve not been too fond of the weather here, it’s more gray than I imagined and generally a lot colder than I like. Needless to say, Dan thinks the weather is great! But when you have two kids, a small apartment and no car, it’s ideal to have nice weather so you can enjoy whatever slice of mother nature you can find.

After Rachel took a whopper nap this morning (while Joseph was at garderie) I packed her up and took a 12 minute bus ride to the Marais. This area was home to many French aristrocrats in the 16th century, two of which we have visited (Carnavalet Museum and Hotel Soubise). Currently it’s a popular shopping area with narrow streets and lots of charm. I intended to revisit Place des Vosges but the tourists were out in full force so I pressed on.

I ended up on rue de Rosiers which was (is?) the heart of the Jewish community. Here there are many kosher delis and every little cafe or restaurant has a Jewish star in the window. It’s a pretty touristy spot too, but I couldn’t help but buy a big yummy veggie falafel sandwich which everyone seemed to have in hand. Hmm, I thought they were Egyptian… But no matter, where ever they are from, they are delicious.   

On the way home I plotted my route so I would stop by Picard (the frozen food store) to stock up for the weekend. In typical French fashion, the store was closed for four days (!) due to inventory. Some might think, “Isn’t it great that they don’t feel the pressure to stay open and cater to mass consumerism?” But I say, “Don’t they know it’s the only place I can find bagels?” Picard: zero, 24-hour Harris Teeter: 10.

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Heavenly Holiday

May 21, 2009 · 2 Comments

by Danielle

It seems like every time you turn around there is another holiday in France for something I’ve never heard of. Today it’s Ascension Day, supposedly the last appearance of Jesus after his resurrection on Easter Sunday.  I think it’s great that the French get lots of holidays, it’s one of the reasons we are attracted to the European way of life.  But I’ve come to realize that in some ways it’s less than ideal.

One reason is that the majority of the vacation time is dictated to happen at specific holidays and the months of July and August when many businesses close shop. If there’s one thing I hate, it’s taking vacation with the masses. It seems like people don’t really go away “off season” very much. I could be wrong but that’s just my perception thus far. Also, since  everyone is taking vacation at the same time,  if you want to take a trip you have to book places waaay in advance. Just try to go on vrbo.com (apartment rentals) and book a vacation for southern France in July or August, and you’ll find every decent option blocked out a year in advance.

Because of the holiday Joseph did not have garderie, and when I asked him what he wanted to do he said, “take a train and see a museum.” Awesome! Off we went to my favorite museum, the Pompidou Center. Many French people think it’s a horrible eyesore but I love it. Not only is it a cool building with great collection of contemporary artwork, but on the practical side it’s just a few metro stops away at Rambuteau (which has stroller-friendly escalators, a rarity). Best of all there is a children’s room on the ground floor. 

It was my first time taking both children on the metro by myself, something that is only possible now because we’ve been making Joseph walk a lot more instead of being stroller dependent which was so limiting.  I was pleased to discover that it was quite manageable. When we got off the metro we made a pit stop for snacks (crepe and gauffres) at the playful fountain to the south of the museum that is filled with colorful water-shooting sculptures. Then we played in the discovery room which was filled with activities related to the “Alexander Calder: the Paris Years” exhibit, which focuses on his wire sculptures and in particular his circus toys.  Then back home in time for lunch and Rachel’s naptime.

I’m scratching my head trying to recall anything new and noteworthy, and the only thing that comes to mind is a “girls night out” I had last Friday. I met up with Jessica (from New Zealand), Sarsha (from Australia) and Romy (from Washington state) for a yummy dinner and drinks down the street. It was a nice mix of people, Romy and Jessica have lived in France for about a decade and love it, while Sarsha and I have been here nearly a year but are not quite convinced of its fabulousness.  When we left the restaurant (after midnight) the streets and cafes were alive with people… and when I returned home I could hear Rachel’s crying from the sidewalk. Ah, motherhood.

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Opera

May 14, 2009 · 1 Comment

by Danielle

Having houseguests was a reminder that there is plenty of sightseeing I have yet to do in Paris. Today I decided to get to it. Rachel and I visited the Opera Garnier, a stunner of an opera house completed in 1875. I had originally planned to see a dance or opera there, but then realized I could take a self guided tour for a fraction of the price. 4 euros (with pole-emploi reduction), instead of 40-200 euros for a performance. 

It’s lavishly decorated in the Beaux Arts style, with ornate statuary, marble, freizes, gold leaf, velvet, bronze and so on. There are grand halls and also intimate corridors. I wish my photos had turned out but unfortunately the lighting was very dim, probably to protect the artwork.  

We were able to go into private “box seating” and look into the theatre which is often inaccessible during the day due to rehersals. What a surprise, on the ceiling around the central chandelier was a very joyful Marc Chagall painting. On one hand I liked it, but also felt it was more than a little out of place given the baroque style of all the other paintings on display (which lean toward the nymph-and-cherub variety). I later read that the Chagall caused a big controversey when it was installed in 1964 for that very reason. Do I get points for that or something?

If the weather had been nicer we would have drifted over towards Place Vendome, a very swanky area which houses some of Paris’ most luxurious hotels and jewelry stores. But alas it was pouring rain so we beat a hasty retreat towards home.

A sidenote- I hate to go on about medical issues but I can’t help but be shocked and delighted at the prices of services and I suspect my American friends might find it interesting… This afternoon I had xrays (dental and sinus) for 30 euros, and a teeth cleaning (lighting fast and lightning painful) for 8 euros. I’m starting to think up what services I might need before the french government changes their minds about my coverage!

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Shanghai

May 12, 2009 · 2 Comments

By Dan

Other than sleeping, I can’t think of a better way to spend the 12 hours on Air France Flight 111 from Shanghai to Paris than writing a blog post.  I’m returning from my first ever trip to Asia and still feeling like the first impressions are pretty fresh in my head.

So the trip started ten days ago – very late the night of May 1.  I was at CDG airport in Paris boarding the plane when my cell phone buzzed with a text message from Danielle:  “1st 3 cases of swine flu reported in paris.”  I had been nervous about leaving her alone with the kids with the hysteria about the global pandemic peaking at that point (we were calling it “Hamageddon.”)  But I took solace in the fact that it hadn’t reached Europe yet when I left, or so I thought.  Anyway it was too late to turn back.  

When you fly east in the summer, taking off at midnight, you barely get any night.  It seemed like it had only been dark an hour or two when the sun started to come up.  From my window seat I watched sunrise over very pretty countryside, and saw a huge city with a massive winding river that stretched on as far as I could see.   The video display on the seat in front of me showed that we were flying over Moscow, and I guess that was the Volga River below us.  I had never been farther east than Moscow in my life until that point. 

We arrived Sunday afternoon and after checking in to our hotel took a cab to meet my friend Derek who had arrived earlier in the day and was staying at a nice hotel downtown.  I was travelling with Carlos (aka Old Carlos, or Brazilian Carlos – though German/Brazilian Carlos is more accurate) from my program.  The core of my social circle this past week was Derek, Old Carlos, Blake, and New Carlos (aka Mexican Carlos.)  The trip included seven other students who I know well from my program, and seven who I didn’t know well but grew to like from our sister campus in Casablanca. 

Bike and mopeds everywhere. Bamboo scaffolding. Laundry hanging from telephone and power lines.

Six of us gathered that first night and wandered out for dinner in downtown Shanghai, ending up at a big restaurant with a long menu with lots of pictures.  We ordered everything that caught our eye.  Almost every meal in China that week turned out to be like the one we had that night:  tons of dishes, maybe ten or twenty, with each meal.  Surprisingly little rice, if any.  The dishes are brought out in waves and put on a lazy susan, and you grab a couple bitefuls as it passes by and drop them on a small plate in front of you.  Some dishes are straightforward, not unlike what I’ve had in Chinese restaurants in the U.S. and France.  Others I still don’t know what they were.

In general they make use of the whole animal in China – I saw the cooked heads of lots of animals this week.  That first night I ate whole duck tongue, and beef cartilage, and some delicious spicy crab.  Later in the week some of the more noteworthy things I tried were beef tongue – which was great – and chicken heart – which wasn’t.  We ordered several beers that first night, and when they arrived we discovered that each bottle was 22 oz.  I had been up for 30+ hours at that point, and that pretty much put me under.  Dinner, and in fact everything that week, was incredibly cheap.  Many of the higher-end meals – multiple courses and lots of drinks – were about $15 or $20 per person.  Lots of meals were much less.

Derek's room with a view

Heading back to the hotel that first night, massively sleep-deprived, the cab cut through a narrow underpass where a cement truck was entering from the other side.  We slowed to let the truck pass through first, and as it entered the passageway the top of the truck scraped and then got stuck right in the middle of the underpass.  We skirted around it as debris and chunks of cement fell to the ground.

In our seminars, and in general during the week, a constant theme was how developed China is.  I went there thinking I was visiting a developing country, but Shanghai (which leads the country in many ways) appears to already have arrived.  I felt safe the entire time I was there.  The roads were well-maintained.  The city was remarkably clean – much more so than Paris.  There are normal stores, a very clean and efficient and navigable metro system, taxis everywhere, good food, and extraordinarily nice people (also much more so than Paris.) 

Tabs on soda can lids - something I hadnt seen since 1993 when I was in Russia.

Tabs on soda can lids - something I hadn't seen since 1993 when I was in Russia.

The roads and traffic infrastructure, however, have grown at a much faster pace than the level of driver education.  I think I finally figured out the main rule that guides their driving philosophy:  if a bike or pedestrian or car is in your way, rather than try to slip in behind or in front or around it, drive straight towards it and assume it will be gone by the time you get there.  I was pretty sure I’d get in an accident at some point, and figured it would be an opportunity to witness the Chinese health care system first time.  We were all surprised when we survived the entire week without an accident.

So we got back to the hotel in one piece that first night and the hotel courtyard had an amazing smell that I would not have expected to find in a city of 20 million people.  It was a beautiful night and I was told the smell was orange flower – it smelled sort of like jasmine to me. 

In the hotel room I collapsed into bed and realized that I had made a huge mistake in not feeling the bed before falling into it.  It was literally as hard as a board, like sleeping on a wood floor that had a soft comforter or carpet on it.  I ended up sleeping pretty well though after a couple nights of adjusting to the time difference.  While the food was pretty good all week, breakfast had some unpleasant surprises.  There were eggs that looked like they were hardboiled

Antique Market

Antique Market

but they were black and I didn’t touch them.  There was some root that looked a little like ginger, twisted up and nasty, not remotely appetizing in the morning.  I ended up having leftover greasy noodles every morning, which was ok but got old by the end of the week.

The week was packed full of seminars, gatherings with alumni from our sister school in Shanghai, and company visits and tours – most with an alumni connection.  A few were dull but most were extremely interesting and enjoyable.  In between, and in my two free days, we explored lots of neighborhoods, ate at lots of different types of restaurants, and hit many of the sites in the guidebooks.  My favorite sites were the Urban Planning Museum, the Jade Buddha Temple, the Shikumen Open House Museum, and the Yuyuan Gardens.  Favorite non-Chinese restaurants were Japanese (so good we went twice,) Malaysian, and Brazilian.  I saw plans for the world expo coming to Shanghai in 2010 (the first world expo in a developing country,) saw pearls removed from an oyster, got tours of a textile factory, a pharmaceutical factory, a car parts factory, saw kitchen knives being made, bought two custom-fitted suits for less than $100, and saw how houses have been renovated in the French concession.

Of the eight companies we visited, seven appeared to be doing very well financially despite what I have read in the papers about China suffering from the economic downturn.  Most have seen sales increase in 2008 and 2009, though at a slightly slower rate.  Most western companies we saw came to China primarily to sell to the Chinese market, not to take advantage of the cheap labor and export products back.  Exports do appear to be flat, or down, but domestic sales continue to grow at an impressive rate and outweigh the export losses.

On Thursday and Friday we went to Suzhou, a very nice city an hour away from Shanghai.  It feels like a small city, “only” six million people, and is home to two massive industrial parks where we visited several companies.  More than 100 of the Fortune 500 have offices or factories in Suzhou.

The highlight of Suzhou for me was the massage place next to our hotel.  Massages in China are amazing:  generally less than $10 for a full hour massage. Several friends got massages in Shanghai – because of my numerous back and joint problems that have gotten a lot worse this year I was worried about getting a massage from someone with whom I couldn’t communicate.  This place had a foot massage option and I figured that sounded relaxing and relatively safe on my back.  Blake and Derek went in for the full massage while New Carlos and I opted for the foot massage and were led into a small room together with huge comfortable chairs, a big TV, and subdued lighting.

We turned off the TV when the two masseuses entered the room, and one of them picked up the remote and turned it back on to a loud MTV-like station that entertaining but far from relaxing.  They brought in two buckets of hot water, took of our shoes and socks and plunged our feet into them.  It was scalding hot, incredibly painful, and the only thing that kept me from yelling was that Carlos was in the room and he wasn’t screaming so I tried to keep my cool.  They didn’t speak any English and understanding where we were supposed to sit or stand or position ourselves was tough.  While our feet were soaking, or burning, they gave us neck and back massages which in my case was just intense pinching and poking but not very therapeutic.

The foot massage itself lasted about 45 minutes.  She started by trying to pull each toe off my foot one by one.  When she couldn’t pull one off, she’d move to the next one.  After that, she started karate-chopping my calves and ankles, I figured she was trying to loosen them up to pull my whole foot off.  The she moved on to my feet, pounding and twisting and mutilating them.  I really didn’t think I would be walking out of there under my own power.  However by the end I had pretty much succumbed and was sort of enjoying it.  I walked out in a daze and ran into four girls from my program who were standing at the reception area looking at the menu of different massages.  One of them, Carmel, took one look at my glossed-over face and said “I want what he had!” 

The next day my feet felt fine but my back and arm were killing me.  Carmel reported being so bruised in her next and shoulders that she was in pain the next day and had to take painkillers.  One other friend was uncomfortably sore; several others said they loved it.

Afterword

So that was written mostly on the plane on the way back.  I am now back in Paris, one day later, typing up the blog post and enjoying family time.  I didn’t quite finish all I experienced and all the anecdotes that keep popping into my head, but this post has gotten long enough.

It is great to be back.  I felt bad missing Rachel’s first birthday, and Mothers Day.  We had a little celebration for Rachel when I got back and I slept very soundly last night and feel pretty human.  Anyway it looks like Danielle has gotten serious again about the blogging and I have some reading to catch up on.

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